I, along with 500 million of my closest friends, have a tendency to use Facebook at least once a day.
I’m sure most of you log in more than once daily. That’s okay. I’m not judging. I am not going to get into demographics or even statistics because that is beyond the scope of this post, and that’s not what I intend to actually discuss. However, I have provided an image that shows a breakdown of user stats from 2009 compared to users in 2010.
Status Updates
Let’s start with an example: “I’m eating a cheeseburger right now, and it’s tasty.”
Great, glad to hear that you are consuming sustenance for your body. Quite frankly, however, I just might not want to know that you are eating a cheeseburger. Instead of posting something as mundane as that (and not garnering any attention from your friends), why not try giving the update some context. For instance, “I’m eating a cheeseburger with BBQ sauce, topped with onion rings, bacon, arugula and a grilled lobster tail. Jealous?”
What this example has done is draw the interest of your friends, which may, in turn, elicit a response. Status updates aren’t about common, everyday events that no one really cares about. The status update is a way to be creative in communicating the trivial tasks you’re letting your friends know about. Then again, no one really cares that you went to the dentist either. Creative or not, don’t do it (but that’s just my opinion).
Profile: Bibliography
This is where it can get kind of tricky. What it comes down to is this: if you are going to use your profile for personal means or your personal/professional ones (i.e., you use it personally to connect with friends – but at the same time, you have work friends – Facebook provides you with a multitude of options. If you choose to use Facebook for personal/professional use be wary of the privacy settings that have a tendency to change without notice and quite regularly. Knowing how to set up friend lists (so only certain friends have access to your social network) can save your personal life, online social reputation and professional career.
Don’t be afraid to share some easter eggs about yourself, but don’t get so creative that nobody understands what you are saying. Social networks, in general, encourage bits of narcissism, and with the amount of space allowed by Facebook, it’s bound to happen. Go ahead and share, I say. Having the same interests and commonalities as someone else can provide for a lasting friendship, whether virtual or not. Just remember this: less is more.
A word about age (rather a quote, if you will): “While you may want to include your birthday on your Facebook profile, you should exclude the birth year. Your friends and family know how old you are, and there’s no reason for your professional ones to know.” ~ Kirsten Dixson, a reputation management and online identity expert.
Content: Links, News, Videos, Photos, etc.
Posting content is great. Not only does it inform your friends of the happenings of the day, it can also showcase your interests and your areas of expertise in your profession. Of course, some of your friends may not want to know about how “Little Zeus the Hairless Cat Won a Lock of Justin Bieber’s Hair” in an auction or how “Bristol Palin Can’t Stay in the Lines of a Coloring Book.” Try sticking to something that is relevant to you and your area of expertise. However, every now and then post something random. A penny for your thoughts: humor works every time.
If you’re posting photos, try not to post photos that are embarrassing to you and/or your friends in the photo. If the photo made you laugh, great. Unfortunately, that funny picture (of whatever it may happen to be), could be extremely embarrassing to your friend(s), so don’t get “tag happy.” This could possibly hinder their social credibility, and you could get unfriended, both virtually and personally.
A word of advice: if you have to think about it, it probably shouldn’t go up.
Photo Credit: istrategylabs
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